Why I wouldn’t want to date a “Christian guy”

I don’t want to date a Christian guy. Yes you read that sentence right.  I know the Bible tells us to be equally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14). Let me explain…

I don’t want a Christian guy because I want a Godly man. Big differences between the two. A Godly man is a Christian guy but a Christian guy is not a Godly man. ( it’s the whole “square is a rectangle, but a rectangle is not a square.” Same logic. )

A Godly man is someone who seeks first the kingdom and continues to work on their relationship with God. A Christian guy is someone who is associated with the Christian faith just by proclaiming Jesus as their savior.

A Godly man loves the Lord so much more than anything else in his life. He would rather disappoint you then disappoint the Lord. A Christian guy loves God but he lets idols come between them.

Godly men are few to come by so hold onto their friendship when you find one. They care more about having conversations directed around God. Christian guys are more common to find. They care more about conversations directed around worldly things.

Characteristics of a Godly man:
1. Actively pursues a relationship with God.
2. Has a kind heart towards others and is a great servant in this world.
3. Humbles himself and confesses his shortcomings.
4. Encourages his friends to strengthen their own relationships with God and to keep him accountable.

I want a Godly man not just a Christian guy.



-I’m Not A Writer, I’m Just Trying to Save Money on Buying A Diary-

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